July 17, 2013 THE VILLADOM TIMES I • Page 17 When is the right time for seniors to leave home? Comfortable living alone may be a signal to an older adult that he or she still has independence. But at some point, friends or family members might need to broach the topic of moving to an assisted living facility. Moving should never be a knee-jerk reaction unless there is a sudden medical emergency. Under normal circumstances, moving should be a gradual process that begins even before a parent, grandparent, or other relative really needs to change residences. Here are steps to keep in mind. Make sure to develop a strong relationship with your loved one. This relationship should be consistent and keep you in frequent contact so you can best assess his or her living situation. Talk things over with other siblings or relatives to see if others feel the same way you do. Perhaps they have a different point of view. If there are problems at home, make your case by pointing them out. Show the elder adult how certain burdens may be lifted by changing living situations. Indicate that access to health care and a safe environment are some of the key benefits of moving to a senior community. Point out other benefits, such as companionship with similarly aged people, activities, transportation, and the presence of a maintenance staff to ensure nothing falls into disrepair. Do your research and have the names and amenities of different residences available. Request brochures from senior communities and offer to make trips to view the homes together with your senior relative. If the idea of a “home” is not what your loved one has in mind, discuss the options of moving in with a relative. Consider hiring a geriatric care manager to help you organize your thoughts and priorities regarding a senior living transition. These individuals provide services that include helping families locate appropriate housing and care services for their loved ones. Not every senior needs to leave home, but the topic should be broached if assistance with day-to-day activities is needed. Total Hearing Care in Midland Park will hold a Special Hearing Open House at 600 Godwin Avenue, Suite 7 on July 25 and 26. Participants will receive a free hearing checkup and a demonstration of the AMP hearing aid. The demonstration will be presented by a national hearing aid consultant. All are invited. To reserve a spot at the Open House, call the Midland Park office at (973) 939-0028. Free hearing check set