February 10, 2010 THE VILLADOM TIMES IV • Page 11 (ARA) Do red roses mean more than you’re willing to admit? Does the jewelry you’re giving your loved one send the correct message? What is the appropriate gift to show your mother that you love her on Valentine’s Day? As the holiday of love quickly approaches, many of us are trying to find the right gifts for our loved ones. For new couples, maybe a gift of red roses in full bloom, which means “I love you,” isn’t what the man is ready to give, or the woman is ready to receive. For couples who have been together for a long time, a lasting gift like a plant might better express your love. Here are some tips to determine what gifts might work well for your relationship. A new relationship. As the relationship changes, so do the Valentine gifts For Your Valentine Don’t forget! Valentine’s Day is Sunday, February 14th. Spending time together and discovering new talents is what makes a new relationship so exciting. Consider cooking a special meal for the two of you to enjoy together, or make a favorite food item for your sweetheart, like brownies or a cake. Gifts for guys who think they know what they want (ARA) Finding gifts for a confident man is not always easy, especially since he already projects such strong characteristics. But by giving him a stylish gift this Valentine’s Day that works with, or even enhances, his confident personality, you can’t go wrong. Here are some suggestions to make this Valentine’s Day something perfect: Give him a scent that reflects his style and turn up the heat on romance. The right fragrance will only accentuate his confidence. Of course, style is very important for confident men, and you can always find him the best winter outdoor wear that not only keeps him warm, but also allows him to still be sexy. Consider cashmere scarves, leather gloves, or a hat that you know will bring out that special look in his eyes when he tilts it just slightly on his head. Plan a fun date for the two of you that he will enjoy. If he is into a sports team, think about getting tickets to a big home game, and include a meal or dessert as part of the bargain. Maybe find some front row tickets to a concert for the music lover. Or plan a hike with a romantic picnic included. Surf and turf dinners are also a popular favorite, whether you cook them yourself or take him out to a fancy restaurant. This Valentine’s Day, you can’t strike out by giving him a strong gift to match his personality. �����������  �������    Eileen’s   Consignments and Tailoring Designer Clothing, Handbags, Shoes & Accessories Grand Opening 40-70% Off Designer Prices Expert Tailoring – Reasonable Prices Flowers work for any relationship. If you aren’t ready to go the red roses route, consider an arrangement of her favorite type of flower, or roses in her favorite color. Still in the honeymoon stage. After you’ve known each other for a while, and enjoy spending every waking minute together, you start to pick up on your partner’s personal tastes. An extra level of thoughtfulness is conveyed through the giving of a creative and specialized gift. Jewelry gifts provide a beautiful way to show how much you care. Diamonds are a traditional favorite for expressing a long-lasting message of love, but other gemstones may be a better fit for the current phase of your relationship. For example, if you want to promote your faithfulness, weaving sapphires into your gift would be a brilliant idea. You can check out what’s available in your local stores. Be sure to leave extra time if you choose a personalized gift. Cologne and perfume also make excellent Valentine’s Day gifts. Happily ever after. Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity for established couples to reconnect, and giving your loved one a gift that inspires a memory from happy times in your relationship works well. For example, consider finding a bottle of the wine or champagne you drank on your first date, or at your wedding. Being comfortable with each other is what works for happily-ever-after couples. Consider booking a couple’s massage, so you can both enjoy the gift of time spent together in blissful relaxation. Best friends forever. Finding a non-romantic gift for your best friend does not have to be difficult. Just pay attention to their special interests and cater to them. For example, browse the bookstore for a copy of their favorite book. Or if they’re into sporting events, think about getting tickets to an upcoming home game or a jersey as a gift. Family members will appreciate gifts that bring back memories of time spent together. If you are creative, a scrapbook of time spent with your mom would make a wonderful gift. Or a digital photo frame preloaded with family photos will put a smile on your dad’s face. Of course, it’s easy to show how much you care this Valentine’s Day. 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